5 thoughts on “After the marriage, the groom and groom are not in the wedding room. Can anyone else in the family sleep in the wedding room?”
Adam
Generally, it is impossible, because it is the new husband and wife's wedding room. Even if they can't hold it for the time being, others are not suitable for sleeping their wedding rooms, because they feel disrespectful. The wedding room seemed to be a guest room. When the groom and bride went back to live, it felt like a guest. If the room is not enough, you can consider that a room is made up and down, or you can do another layer of houses instead of going to sleep in the wedding room of the groom and groom.
The day before marriage, I had a mind, A moment when I touched the tip of me and Meng Jing's tongue, I heard him say, "葭葭, I love you." I am He stunned, opened his eyes to see him. The eyes closed, his lips were close to me, kissing so deeply, so investing. When I suspected that it was just an illusion, his voice sounded again, "You are finally mine." 1. To get married, the mode of getting along has always been respectful. Dating to eat, watching movies, and hugging in hand, we go slowly and stable every step. He just touched his lips and let go. tonight is the first time he kissed me like this, downstairs in my house, after he said tomorrow, I will go home with him tomorrow. I don't know why I heard those voices, The never said that to me. "I will make you happy." "Let's get married." This is what he said to me the most emotionally. may be due to his personality, or it may be that the nature of work makes him get used to his caution. He is not a person who can speak, or even quiet. When he proposed to me, I was worried about whether the two of our quiet people were suitable for living together. But again, if I asked me to find the other half of the noise, I couldn't accept it. Is when he was about to kiss and couldn't breathe, he let go of me. Staches in his arms, I thought, he was not as cold as it was. I looked up at him, and he was looking down at me. The shallow smile floating in my eyes, raised my hand, and rubbed my face gently with my thumb. I was embarrassed by him, lowered his head, and buried back in his arms. This holding me to stroke my back for a while, bowed his head in my ear and said gently, "I'm going back to rest, I will get up early tomorrow." Not because of less speaking, every time I speak, I am particularly dumb, like the feeling of just waking up. "If I can't get up, will I not get married tomorrow?" After that, I spit out my tongue in his arms. This was the first time I showed me naughty to him. Perhaps his kiss, or maybe the words I do n’t know if it ’s true or false, I love you, that is, I suddenly want to care about him. He grabbed my shoulder and pushed me away. I saw him serious, I stunned. "Don't you want to get married?" He asked. I stunned for a while and didn't want to understand why he suddenly asked. until he said, "But we have already received a certificate ... You really don't want to, I can inform everyone tonight ..." I realized it immediately, He said with his eyes, "Remember to pick me up early tomorrow, don't make a mistake." and then didn't wait for him to answer, I let go and run at home. 2. returning home, a red fire at home. The relatives and friends went home, and parents were sitting in this red fire with red envelopes. "Mom and Dad, I am back." Ma and mother looked up at me, "Xiao Meng sent you back?" "Yes, you don't sleep and wait for me." The parents have always had regular schedules. Generally, they will return to the room to rest at 10 pm. Except for me, I haven't returned home. since childhood, my parents asked me to go home before 10 pm. Even if I graduated from college and worked, they would call me if they did not go home at 10 o'clock, and then they would be on the side of the living room. Watching TV waiting for me home. The friends once said that my parents had too strict discipline in my discipline, and I never felt that. Perhaps I was originally a boring person. When I was a student, I only buried my head to study. After work, I studied flowers and plants. When I was free, my hobbies were to read all kinds of flowers in books. I didn't feel controlled. The gra for my parents to shelter me all the way without wind and waves, carefree. I. I was with Meng Jing, but they did not restrict me anymore, but Meng Jing would send me downstairs at 10 o'clock every time. I Even we went to receive the certificate two weeks ago. He also sent me home on time. He knew that my parents couldn't bear me. Considering that I was not ready to live with him, he told my parents that he wanted to want to want to live with him. After the wedding, I took me home. Perhaps this is why my parents like him so much. It, from us, everything he did was impeccable. I we determined the next day, he came to the house with a gift, and sincerely told my parents that he would not be wronged. It parents of both parties met, filed a relative, applauded, engaged, received a certificate, and held a wedding. Everything was decent and comfortable. The humble and polite personality and the talks in the system, he is the perfect son -in -law in the eyes of his parents. "We can wait for you tonight." Mom suddenly said lonely. I listened to my heart. In the past, I hugged my parents, "Otherwise, I won't marry it." The mother patted my hand comfortably, "What stupid words." Dad also patted my back lightly, "Your mother just sighed for a while, don't be affected by her. You are married to Xiaomeng, and I am very happy with your mother." "Yes, Xiaomeng This child is very good, can tolerate you, and have a sense of responsibility. We are also assured that you marry him. But you can no longer pay attention to your flowers and plants, you also have to learn to take care of your husband, know? " I was embarrassed to refute when I heard the word of my husband, "Where do I have?" "No? Then Xiao Meng came to eat so much meal at home, do you know what he loves, do you not like what you don't like ? " I answers confidently," He loves to eat, he said that every time he said. " The mother shook his head," So I said your child, Xiao Meng, but Xiaomeng, but it is Xiaomeng, but Xiao Meng is Will peel your favorite shrimp into your bowl. You can pick it out of the green onion ginger and garlic you do n’t like to eat. Do you even know that he does n’t even eat spicy or internal organs? " , I glanced, "How do you know?" Mom mother scraped my nose. The other half, do you know? " I thought," Mom, do you know I like flowers so much, why do bouquets change to fake flowers? " " Why? " " Because Meng Jing pollen is allergic. " In fact, I did not know that Meng Jing pollen was allergic at first, because he gave me a few flowers during the date and accompanied me to visit the flower market. He did not have any strange performance. Essence In once he came to pick me up, I was holding a pot of new varieties of potted potted plants cultivated in the institute to take home. When I got in the car, I did not see Meng Jing look at the potted flowers. Then the car only turned out of a traffic light, and he kept sneezing. It at this time I know that every time he sends me to me, he takes antiarived drugs to relieve the symptoms. Since then, I have asked him not to send me a flower. "Mom, I will learn to take care of him." 3. 6 o'clock in the morning, I yawned in front of the cosmetic table, and the phone rang. I was startled, and when I picked it up, it was Meng Jing. "Did you get up?" He asked. thinking about my joke with him last night, I smiled and asked, "Are you really afraid that I can't get up?" The light laughter came from the phone, "I still I don't know how long your sleep time is. " I thought about it, it seemed quite long. Inded his fingers and prepared to tell him, but he said, "But I will know tomorrow." The face was red. Hross the topic, "Why are you getting up so early?" The bride is going to make up, and the hairstyle is forced to get up so early. The groom should get up a lot late. . He said, "It's snowing outside, I want to go to your house early." "Scared? Snow?" I stretched out my neck and looked out. I get my hair. This scalp was pulled suddenly, and I had a sound of ‘hissing’, . He heard it and asked me what happened. I watched the makeup artist take off several long black hair from the comb and aggrieved him, "I tipped my hair." Get your hair and give it to me tonight. " " Give you? What do you use to do? " " Tell you tonight. " My hair, "Okay." I have been fiddled with people from 6 o'clock to 8 o'clock. When I saw myself in the mirror, I couldn't help sighing that the makeup was really good, and I couldn't recognize myself. "Wow ~ the bride is so beautiful." The relatives and friends at home came to see me. It today I received the most praise in this life. I I think, every day of marriage is the most beautiful moment in his life. has not been long. In a loud noise, Meng Jing arrived, half an hour earlier than we agreed. I was locked in the room and listened to the noisy outside. I found that even in this noise, I can easily recognize Meng Jing's voice. This is still so stable tone and methodical speed. The door was suddenly opened, and in the overwhelming sound, Meng Jing appeared behind the door. I looked at him stunned. . He is different from the usual casual dress. He has a heroic vest in the suit. He is combed back to combine the hairstyle, without glasses, showing his three -dimensional features. The heartbeat accelerated involuntarily. He walked in front of me with a smile and put the bouquet in my hands. "I'm here to pick you up." I lowered my head shyly, looked at the bouquet in my hand, and looked up at him in surprise. The white oranges with water droplets in my hand. This holding me holding the bouquet and said, "I hope everything today is your favorite." He didn't know that white orange bellflower was the first species of the plant research when I was in college. is my favorite flower, . Its flower language is eternal love. raised his head again to look at him, "I like it very much." When I didn't respond, he kissed my face. In my fault, he touched the tip of his tongue and touched me. The sound of coaxing, I was frightened to avoid it, but I heard the voice of last night again, "You are so beautiful." . He just let go of me just when he touched it. looking at me being kissed silly, his ears said red red, "I'm sorry, you are too beautiful today." looking at the light in his eyes, there was only my eyes in that eyes, I started to believe that the sound I heard is not an illusion. This and his best man played the game in my room. Today he had a request to respond. He endured the rope on the finger pressure plate. Cooperate. Finally, when my bridesmaid took out a cup of black paint and didn't know what the blended drinks were blended, I watched his face frowned slightly, and took it to drink it next second. I shouted at him, "Meng Jing." This with a cup's hand and looked at me in doubt. I shook his head at him, "Don't drink it." The laughter in the room, "The bride was distressed ~~" I confirmed again. It saw that I still shook his head, he put down the cup. It others do n’t do it, and make a joke, "You are the president of the mandarin, listen to his wife so much." He nodded, "Ye Yan is the chief judge of our family in the future. I listen to all of them. Her. " The red face pulled him, pulled out the paper towels a little bit to wipe his lipstick on his face. did not care about the other people's smile, kneeled in front of me, and raised his face, smiling and letting me play with his face. This like this, I seemed to see a tail behind him shook at me. The game is over, we are surrounded by everyone to take photos one after another at home. I we took funny photos with our friends and took a rare photo with relatives until our parents came to take a family portrait with us. When my parents sat next to me and held my hand tightly, a sadness of leaving home. It is like we go to a place with beautiful landscapes. You know that you are leaving soon and want to record this moment. This photos are the last commemorative I want to leave this home. I I couldn't relax in this sad emotion, and was pulled to the last tea session. As soon as I kneeling, my tears started to fall. The mood I don't want to marry to the extreme, I don't want to leave the house, I don't want to leave my parents. Meng Jing was the first person to discover me crying. He kneeling beside me and hugging me softly, noticing my emotions, he whispered and solemn in my ear, "I promise you, when you want to come back in the future, I can do it. I will respect my parents as you and dads. They just have more my son, not lost you. " Ma and mother came to comfort me when they saw me crying. Tears were surrounded by them. I realized that getting married is just the feeling of a person who loves you in the world. I Ji Shi is here, and Meng Jing and I have taken the house under the urging of their parents. The mother who has been holding tears can no longer be able to help at the moment I turned around, and she shed tears. I didn't see it. It was Meng Jingsong's hand and folded it back. When I turned around, Meng Jing had kneeling in front of my parents. "Thank you mom and dad, I will take care of Ye Ye." The parents quickly helped him. " " I will, don't be sad, I will often come back with Ye Yan to see you. " " Okay, let's go. " Meng Jing walked towards me. He gently wiped off my tears holding my face. "Don't cry, I promise you to accompany you home in the future?" As my parents said, I really met a good person. "Thank you." "You don't need to tell me these two words." The wedding everything is perfect. This flowers at the wedding banquet scene were replaced with white ocean stark and the flowers I like. I Meng Jing and I stood on the stage, tightly intertwined, and accepted the blessings of everyone. , as Meng Jing said, everything I like today is what I like. 4. The wedding banquet ended, and Meng Jing and I returned to our wedding room. This house was Meng Jing. Before marriage, he proposed to transfer the house to my name. I did not agree and felt unnecessary. Perhaps I still have an idealism. The marriage I want does not involve too much money. Two people are purely supported by feelings. This relationship does not need to be strong. Essence It at night we all took a shower, I stood in front of the bath mirror and blowing my hair. . After a while, Meng Jing appeared at the door of the bathroom. "I'll help you blow it." . He also took a shower and changed a set of pajamas with me. I bought it. The red silk made him like a noble son. The was very gentle and patient. My hair was fast and waist. It was troublesome to blow, but he was not in a hurry at all, from the top to the end of the hair, blowing a little bit. This black hair through his fingers, revealing his wedding ring with his ring finger. The I looked down at the one in my hand, which was a manifestation of the unique relationship between us. Mi might have been blowing for 20 minutes, and Meng Jing finally put down the air tube. I a little embarrassed to say, "I will blow it myself in the future." This shook his head, "Your hair is very comfortable, I like to help you blow it." Wandering my hair, "Do you still keep your hair in the morning?" "Ah, some, in my bag." He forgot it without saying. I went to the living room to find a bag, and returned to the room to see Meng Jing sitting in front of the dressing table. There was a box on the stage. I gave him the hair, "What are you going to do?" did he take a red rope from the box and put my hair on the red rope. I seemed to understand that he was going to do What, sweet in my heart. Is when he raised his hand to pull his hair, I quickly pulled him. "Don't pull, it hurts, I'll get scissors." Although the house was from Meng Jing, he did not stay in after the decoration. All the daily necessities in the house were after I received a certificate with him. If you add it together, things are as good as me. I quickly found the scissors and cut three of the hair in his hair. This wrapped his three hair with my three hair, and finally tied them together with a red rope and placed in the box. This head looked up at me, "The hair is a husband and wife," . His eyes have been entangled in me, waiting for my answer. The red face and whispered back to him, "Love is not doubtful." This holding me to his leg, "Can you?" Is it not just that. This with both hands on his shoulders, and nodded with blushing. The taste of toothpaste in his mouth, fresh, a little sweet. "You are finally mine." It's tongue entangled me, and I heard this sentence again. But I was no longer surprised, only to perceive his hotter kiss, and dizzy made me tightly around his neck. did not know that I fell into the soft bedding with him, and he left my lips. I grabbed the bedding nervously, feeling that he picked my pajamas and kissed a little bit. The aware of it, raised his body to hold my hand to grab the quilt, his fingers were intertwined, and he leaned down and kissed me, this time I heard him say, "I love you, ah." I slowly opened his eyes to look at him, and he kissed me with his eyes closed like that. The ears have always been this sentence, "I love you." . I fluttered in the sound until I drifted to the cloud, In my ear, "I love you." 5. The we became a loved couple after marriage. In the face of my favorite plants, I will always be distracted. From time to time, I have to look at my mobile phone and see if Meng Jing sent me a message. Meng Jing sent me WeChat more frequently than before marriage. Sometimes he posted some dishes he ate at noon, and sometimes took a picture of his work scene. The content of our chat is more and more. He will tell me some special cases he tried, and by the way, he will science and science legal knowledge. I will also tell him about my newly cultivated plants, sharing with him to grow up, and it will also fail to grow up. Compared with the self -denial before marriage, Meng Jing after marriage became tired and crooked, especially like kiss me. This times we went to watch a movie or in the parking lot, he would not help but kiss me in a dim environment. When the two were at home, he was a little unscrupulous. I kissed me for cooking, and we watched the TV kiss me together. When he office in the study, he would bring me water on his leg. The at first I would be shy, but every time I kissed, when I sounded "I love you, ah." I couldn't refuse him. I like to listen to him and call me, but only every time I hear it when I kiss, he never shouted. This weekend, we went back to Meng Jing's parents' house for dinner, and after lunch, we were in Meng Jing's room lunch break. When I was hazy, I heard the sound of Meng Jing getting up, and opened my eyes halfway, and saw that he changed his clothes. "Where are you going?" I murmured. He came over and kneaded my hair, "I wake up you?" I shook my head. "I have something to go back to the unit and I will come back before dinner." After that he fell a kiss on my forehead, "Let's continue to sleep." In Meng Jing went out, I couldn't sleep, I couldn't sleep. I sat on the bed and looked around his room. It is not the first time in his room, but this is the first time to visit such a time in time. This rooms are very simple. One wardrobe and a bed with a desk with a window. There is a bookcase high to the roof on the desk, which is full of various books. I I was really boring, so I came to the bookcase to find this book to read it. Byed gaze and skipped the middle two layers of legal books. I found that there was a comic book on the top layer, and I stepped on the chair and looked up. This masters, seven Dragon Ball ... It turned out that Meng Jing's childhood was the same as most children. I seemed to see the scene where he was holding a comic book on the chair. Sold the comics back to the original position, and then looked at the empty position of the book, and found that there was a box behind the book. I took out the box and was a dusty gift box. I faintly noticed that this was a secret. I hesitated for a while, but in the end, I couldn't be curious. In the days in the future, I regret my curiosity at this moment. Open the lid, the top is a card. The words in the eye, "I'm sorry, I hurt you. If you want, I will take care of you for a lifetime." Take care of my life for a long time. I never thought that he had given others a lifetime promise to others. I didn't ask Meng Jing's love history, and he never mentioned it with me. The people like him, I have thought that he would not have been in love. is just that he is so considerate and serious when he is in love. I put down the card and take out the things in the box, When I looked at the flower protected by the glass cover, my hands almost broken. The white oranges, my favorite flower. 6. I thought he chose a white orange bellflower at the wedding is the happiness of the heart. I thought the eternal love was his blessing to our marriage. But earlier, he gave this flower that symbolizes eternal love to others. did they also talk about marriage? What stories between them? Why didn't the flowers send it out? Why is it still? did he want to marry me? still want to be with the woman who also likes white oranges? The tears dripped on the glass cover, and I suddenly felt heartache. I love Meng Jing and fall in love with my husband, but who is the person he loves? I have also puzzled it. We met with the blind date. He was very good to me since he met for the first time. Well, I thought he was in love with me at first sight. Now it seems that the good thing for no reason is because I reminds him of another woman? This of my mind was chaotic, panicked the box back to the original position, lying on the bed, my tears couldn't stop falling away. I don't know what to do. I don't have a clever head, and I don't even know how to face Meng Jing. If I go directly to ask him, would he lie to me? He was lying to me, can I tell me again? I don't know how long I thought about how long I thought about it, until the door was pushed away gently, and I closed my eyes subconsciously. The mattress sinking slightly, and Meng Jing's breath enveloped me. This he explored my forehead, and then touched my back. Seeing that I had no strangeness, wake up softly, "Ye Yan, get up." Open your eyes. This condensed me with concern, "Is there anything uncomfortable?" I shook my head. "You have been sleeping for a long time today, I came back and found that you haven't got up yet, thinking you are uncomfortable." He seemed to find something, frowned, and stroked my eyes, "How do you red eyes?" The my hands around his neck and buried his head on his shoulders. It's not true. " I looked at the bookcase," No, very real. " did he ask," What did you dream of? " Some, "I dream of others in your heart." . His body stiffened. . My heart was suddenly cold. He quickly hugged me, "So it is not true, how can I have no one else in my heart." I loosened his hand and hugged his hand. I found that I can tell if he is lying. 7. Since that night, I have rejected Meng Jing. Whenever he wants to hold my hand or touch me, I will avoid it subconsciously, and I will become silent. Meng Jing's surprise, loss, sadness now. This he tried to unlock my heart knot, as he kneeled in front of me as he got married, and looked at me sincerely, I even saw begging in his eyes. But I just couldn't do it with him to talk openly. I was afraid that he heard him lie to me again. I found that I would rather know nothing, and I couldn't accept him to lie to me. I also thought about divorce, but I found that my love for Meng Jing was more aware of it. When I thought of divorcing him, I couldn't help crying. No divorce. and he still cares so much. I. After I refused to communicate with him, he began to please me carefully. He went to get off work every day to buy food for me to cook the dishes I love to eat. The people of the Qing Dynasty and the hydroponic plants set me a small botanical garden on the balcony. I would buy it the next day. . He became cautious at home. He returned home and liked to rest on the sofa for a while. Every time I went to pull him to change clothes, I would nest in my arms. It's right. The housework divided by the two people rushed to finish everything. Every time he said, he would observe my expression carefully and was afraid of saying what made me unhappy. I see it very sadly, saying that he doesn't need this to him, but he smiled and said that he wanted to be good to me. ie we just lived together in this awkwardly. He was considerate to me. I couldn't trust him and couldn't always face him. Until a day, Meng Jing took a bunch of flowers to pick me up from get off work. He stood beside the car and smiled so happily, as if he finally found a way to please me. , I stared at the white orange bellflower, but clenched my fist. He walked in front of me and sent the flowers to me like a child who showed a full score test to parents. Before he could say anything, I said, "Can you throw the flowers?" N's smile on Meng Jing's face, paused for a while, and laughed embarrassingly: "Aren't you the most like white oranges?" The meltering of which nerve was provoked, and I was excitedly excitedly excitedly excited. "Who tells you that I like white oranges? Have I told you? Still like someone else you remember!" Meng Jing looked at me wrongly, flashed in his eyes, but it was only a moment, but it was just a moment, but it was just a moment. Then he smiled at me again, "I'm not good, I remember it wrong." Then he turned to put the flower on the lid of the trash can. looking at his back and looking at the flowers on the trash bin, I was red with my eyes. I hate such an unreasonable self -made self and hate such a sensitive and fragile self. On the way home, Meng Jing was also going to buy food for me. I grabbed him, "Let's go home first, I want to talk to you." This he quietly condensed me, like what I felt, and I didn't expect to talk about what I said. He followed me all the way home all the way, saw me sitting on the sofa of the living room, but turned to the kitchen. I wanted to stop him, he had taken out the pot and started to wash, making a series of sounds. I sighed and didn't speak anymore. . After a while, Meng Jing brought two bowls of noodles. There was a large bowl of fried eggs in front of me. Several tender green leaves had no vegetable stems, and pepper oil and vinegar were added. Looking at the bowl of Meng Jing, the vegetable stems are in his bowl, and the clear noodle soup does not even have a egg. What blocked in my heart, I ca n’t say what I want to say, but I feel that I ca n’t go on like this again. I took a few noodles and stared at the bowl and said, "Meng Jing, I want to move to the dormitory for a while." The air stagnant for a moment, hearing Meng Jing's slight trembling voice, "No Can you move? If you think I hinder you, I can move to the study to sleep. " I shake my head," I don't want to lose my temper to you so no way, and I don’t want you to endure me. " He reached out and held my hand, "Ye Ye, how can you treat me, as long as we do not separate." I finally gathered the courage to see him, "separation may be good for us. The injuries and begging in his eyes made me look away. "Can you tell me what happened? What did I do wrong?" He asked. I hesitated, and finally shook my head, "No, you didn't do it wrong, but I haven't figured it out yet, can you give me time?" Also tolerate me like this, endure me, what's wrong with him, he just loves a woman. I don't want to ask who the woman is and what they have. I just think, if I separate for a while, I may be able to think clearly and digest it. The husband in this world can only love his wife wholeheartedly, as long as he is good enough to me, does not betray and derail, and continues to take care of me, can I open one eye and close one eye. Intersection In follow -up, please see: White Orange Place (bottom) This: I should sleep Source: Zhihu Reprinted reprint has been authorized by the author
You can sleep, because the groom and bride's wedding room can not sleep within 100 days. Even if you do not sleep, you have to put a broom or others on the bed. This is the custom of our place. Look at the customs of various places
Under normal circumstances, others cannot enter the wedding room, so they are not auspicious for the groom and bride. Moreover, how can there be other people in the new house and the bride's happy house?
Generally, it is impossible, because it is the new husband and wife's wedding room. Even if they can't hold it for the time being, others are not suitable for sleeping their wedding rooms, because they feel disrespectful. The wedding room seemed to be a guest room. When the groom and bride went back to live, it felt like a guest. If the room is not enough, you can consider that a room is made up and down, or you can do another layer of houses instead of going to sleep in the wedding room of the groom and groom.
The day before marriage, I had a mind,
A moment when I touched the tip of me and Meng Jing's tongue, I heard him say,
"葭葭, I love you."
I am He stunned, opened his eyes to see him.
The eyes closed, his lips were close to me, kissing so deeply, so investing.
When I suspected that it was just an illusion, his voice sounded again,
"You are finally mine."
1.
To get married, the mode of getting along has always been respectful.
Dating to eat, watching movies, and hugging in hand, we go slowly and stable every step. He just touched his lips and let go.
tonight is the first time he kissed me like this, downstairs in my house, after he said tomorrow, I will go home with him tomorrow.
I don't know why I heard those voices,
The never said that to me.
"I will make you happy."
"Let's get married."
This is what he said to me the most emotionally.
may be due to his personality, or it may be that the nature of work makes him get used to his caution. He is not a person who can speak, or even quiet.
When he proposed to me, I was worried about whether the two of our quiet people were suitable for living together. But again, if I asked me to find the other half of the noise, I couldn't accept it.
Is when he was about to kiss and couldn't breathe, he let go of me.
Staches in his arms, I thought, he was not as cold as it was.
I looked up at him, and he was looking down at me.
The shallow smile floating in my eyes, raised my hand, and rubbed my face gently with my thumb.
I was embarrassed by him, lowered his head, and buried back in his arms.
This holding me to stroke my back for a while, bowed his head in my ear and said gently, "I'm going back to rest, I will get up early tomorrow."
Not because of less speaking, every time I speak, I am particularly dumb, like the feeling of just waking up.
"If I can't get up, will I not get married tomorrow?" After that, I spit out my tongue in his arms. This was the first time I showed me naughty to him.
Perhaps his kiss, or maybe the words I do n’t know if it ’s true or false, I love you, that is, I suddenly want to care about him.
He grabbed my shoulder and pushed me away.
I saw him serious, I stunned.
"Don't you want to get married?" He asked.
I stunned for a while and didn't want to understand why he suddenly asked.
until he said, "But we have already received a certificate ... You really don't want to, I can inform everyone tonight ..."
I realized it immediately,
He said with his eyes, "Remember to pick me up early tomorrow, don't make a mistake."
and then didn't wait for him to answer, I let go and run at home.
2.
returning home, a red fire at home.
The relatives and friends went home, and parents were sitting in this red fire with red envelopes.
"Mom and Dad, I am back."
Ma and mother looked up at me, "Xiao Meng sent you back?"
"Yes, you don't sleep and wait for me."
The parents have always had regular schedules. Generally, they will return to the room to rest at 10 pm. Except for me, I haven't returned home.
since childhood, my parents asked me to go home before 10 pm. Even if I graduated from college and worked, they would call me if they did not go home at 10 o'clock, and then they would be on the side of the living room. Watching TV waiting for me home.
The friends once said that my parents had too strict discipline in my discipline, and I never felt that.
Perhaps I was originally a boring person. When I was a student, I only buried my head to study. After work, I studied flowers and plants. When I was free, my hobbies were to read all kinds of flowers in books. I didn't feel controlled.
The gra for my parents to shelter me all the way without wind and waves, carefree.
I. I was with Meng Jing, but they did not restrict me anymore, but Meng Jing would send me downstairs at 10 o'clock every time.
I Even we went to receive the certificate two weeks ago. He also sent me home on time. He knew that my parents couldn't bear me. Considering that I was not ready to live with him, he told my parents that he wanted to want to want to live with him. After the wedding, I took me home.
Perhaps this is why my parents like him so much.
It, from us, everything he did was impeccable.
I we determined the next day, he came to the house with a gift, and sincerely told my parents that he would not be wronged.
It parents of both parties met, filed a relative, applauded, engaged, received a certificate, and held a wedding. Everything was decent and comfortable.
The humble and polite personality and the talks in the system, he is the perfect son -in -law in the eyes of his parents.
"We can wait for you tonight." Mom suddenly said lonely.
I listened to my heart. In the past, I hugged my parents, "Otherwise, I won't marry it."
The mother patted my hand comfortably, "What stupid words."
Dad also patted my back lightly, "Your mother just sighed for a while, don't be affected by her. You are married to Xiaomeng, and I am very happy with your mother."
"Yes, Xiaomeng This child is very good, can tolerate you, and have a sense of responsibility. We are also assured that you marry him. But you can no longer pay attention to your flowers and plants, you also have to learn to take care of your husband, know? "
I was embarrassed to refute when I heard the word of my husband, "Where do I have?"
"No? Then Xiao Meng came to eat so much meal at home, do you know what he loves, do you not like what you don't like ? "
I answers confidently," He loves to eat, he said that every time he said. "
The mother shook his head," So I said your child, Xiao Meng, but Xiaomeng, but it is Xiaomeng, but Xiao Meng is Will peel your favorite shrimp into your bowl. You can pick it out of the green onion ginger and garlic you do n’t like to eat. Do you even know that he does n’t even eat spicy or internal organs? "
, I glanced, "How do you know?"
Mom mother scraped my nose. The other half, do you know? "
I thought," Mom, do you know I like flowers so much, why do bouquets change to fake flowers? "
" Why? "
" Because Meng Jing pollen is allergic. "
In fact, I did not know that Meng Jing pollen was allergic at first, because he gave me a few flowers during the date and accompanied me to visit the flower market. He did not have any strange performance. Essence
In once he came to pick me up, I was holding a pot of new varieties of potted potted plants cultivated in the institute to take home. When I got in the car, I did not see Meng Jing look at the potted flowers. Then the car only turned out of a traffic light, and he kept sneezing.
It at this time I know that every time he sends me to me, he takes antiarived drugs to relieve the symptoms.
Since then, I have asked him not to send me a flower.
"Mom, I will learn to take care of him."
3.
6 o'clock in the morning, I yawned in front of the cosmetic table, and the phone rang.
I was startled, and when I picked it up, it was Meng Jing.
"Did you get up?" He asked.
thinking about my joke with him last night, I smiled and asked, "Are you really afraid that I can't get up?"
The light laughter came from the phone, "I still I don't know how long your sleep time is. "
I thought about it, it seemed quite long.
Inded his fingers and prepared to tell him, but he said, "But I will know tomorrow."
The face was red.
Hross the topic, "Why are you getting up so early?"
The bride is going to make up, and the hairstyle is forced to get up so early. The groom should get up a lot late.
. He said, "It's snowing outside, I want to go to your house early."
"Scared? Snow?" I stretched out my neck and looked out. I get my hair.
This scalp was pulled suddenly, and I had a sound of ‘hissing’,
. He heard it and asked me what happened.
I watched the makeup artist take off several long black hair from the comb and aggrieved him, "I tipped my hair."
Get your hair and give it to me tonight. "
" Give you? What do you use to do? "
" Tell you tonight. "
My hair, "Okay."
I have been fiddled with people from 6 o'clock to 8 o'clock. When I saw myself in the mirror, I couldn't help sighing that the makeup was really good, and I couldn't recognize myself.
"Wow ~ the bride is so beautiful." The relatives and friends at home came to see me.
It today I received the most praise in this life.
I I think, every day of marriage is the most beautiful moment in his life.
has not been long. In a loud noise, Meng Jing arrived, half an hour earlier than we agreed.
I was locked in the room and listened to the noisy outside.
I found that even in this noise, I can easily recognize Meng Jing's voice.
This is still so stable tone and methodical speed.
The door was suddenly opened, and in the overwhelming sound, Meng Jing appeared behind the door.
I looked at him stunned.
. He is different from the usual casual dress. He has a heroic vest in the suit. He is combed back to combine the hairstyle, without glasses, showing his three -dimensional features.
The heartbeat accelerated involuntarily.
He walked in front of me with a smile and put the bouquet in my hands.
"I'm here to pick you up."
I lowered my head shyly, looked at the bouquet in my hand, and looked up at him in surprise.
The white oranges with water droplets in my hand.
This holding me holding the bouquet and said, "I hope everything today is your favorite."
He didn't know that white orange bellflower was the first species of the plant research when I was in college.
is my favorite flower,
. Its flower language is eternal love.
raised his head again to look at him, "I like it very much."
When I didn't respond, he kissed my face.
In my fault, he touched the tip of his tongue and touched me.
The sound of coaxing, I was frightened to avoid it, but I heard the voice of last night again,
"You are so beautiful."
. He just let go of me just when he touched it.
looking at me being kissed silly, his ears said red red, "I'm sorry, you are too beautiful today."
looking at the light in his eyes, there was only my eyes in that eyes, I started to believe that the sound I heard is not an illusion.
This and his best man played the game in my room. Today he had a request to respond. He endured the rope on the finger pressure plate. Cooperate. Finally, when my bridesmaid took out a cup of black paint and didn't know what the blended drinks were blended, I watched his face frowned slightly, and took it to drink it next second.
I shouted at him, "Meng Jing."
This with a cup's hand and looked at me in doubt.
I shook his head at him, "Don't drink it."
The laughter in the room, "The bride was distressed ~~"
I confirmed again.
It saw that I still shook his head, he put down the cup.
It others do n’t do it, and make a joke, "You are the president of the mandarin, listen to his wife so much."
He nodded, "Ye Yan is the chief judge of our family in the future. I listen to all of them. Her. "
The red face pulled him, pulled out the paper towels a little bit to wipe his lipstick on his face.
did not care about the other people's smile, kneeled in front of me, and raised his face, smiling and letting me play with his face.
This like this, I seemed to see a tail behind him shook at me.
The game is over, we are surrounded by everyone to take photos one after another at home.
I we took funny photos with our friends and took a rare photo with relatives until our parents came to take a family portrait with us. When my parents sat next to me and held my hand tightly, a sadness of leaving home.
It is like we go to a place with beautiful landscapes. You know that you are leaving soon and want to record this moment.
This photos are the last commemorative I want to leave this home.
I I couldn't relax in this sad emotion, and was pulled to the last tea session.
As soon as I kneeling, my tears started to fall.
The mood I don't want to marry to the extreme, I don't want to leave the house, I don't want to leave my parents.
Meng Jing was the first person to discover me crying.
He kneeling beside me and hugging me softly, noticing my emotions, he whispered and solemn in my ear, "I promise you, when you want to come back in the future, I can do it. I will respect my parents as you and dads. They just have more my son, not lost you. "
Ma and mother came to comfort me when they saw me crying. Tears were surrounded by them. I realized that getting married is just the feeling of a person who loves you in the world.
I Ji Shi is here, and Meng Jing and I have taken the house under the urging of their parents.
The mother who has been holding tears can no longer be able to help at the moment I turned around, and she shed tears.
I didn't see it. It was Meng Jingsong's hand and folded it back.
When I turned around, Meng Jing had kneeling in front of my parents.
"Thank you mom and dad, I will take care of Ye Ye."
The parents quickly helped him. "
" I will, don't be sad, I will often come back with Ye Yan to see you. "
" Okay, let's go. "
Meng Jing walked towards me. He gently wiped off my tears holding my face. "Don't cry, I promise you to accompany you home in the future?"
As my parents said, I really met a good person.
"Thank you."
"You don't need to tell me these two words."
The wedding everything is perfect.
This flowers at the wedding banquet scene were replaced with white ocean stark and the flowers I like.
I Meng Jing and I stood on the stage, tightly intertwined, and accepted the blessings of everyone.
, as Meng Jing said, everything I like today is what I like.
4.
The wedding banquet ended, and Meng Jing and I returned to our wedding room.
This house was Meng Jing. Before marriage, he proposed to transfer the house to my name. I did not agree and felt unnecessary.
Perhaps I still have an idealism. The marriage I want does not involve too much money. Two people are purely supported by feelings. This relationship does not need to be strong. Essence
It at night we all took a shower, I stood in front of the bath mirror and blowing my hair.
. After a while, Meng Jing appeared at the door of the bathroom. "I'll help you blow it."
. He also took a shower and changed a set of pajamas with me. I bought it. The red silk made him like a noble son.
The was very gentle and patient. My hair was fast and waist. It was troublesome to blow, but he was not in a hurry at all, from the top to the end of the hair, blowing a little bit.
This black hair through his fingers, revealing his wedding ring with his ring finger.
The I looked down at the one in my hand, which was a manifestation of the unique relationship between us.
Mi might have been blowing for 20 minutes, and Meng Jing finally put down the air tube.
I a little embarrassed to say, "I will blow it myself in the future."
This shook his head, "Your hair is very comfortable, I like to help you blow it."
Wandering my hair, "Do you still keep your hair in the morning?"
"Ah, some, in my bag." He forgot it without saying.
I went to the living room to find a bag, and returned to the room to see Meng Jing sitting in front of the dressing table. There was a box on the stage.
I gave him the hair, "What are you going to do?"
did he take a red rope from the box and put my hair on the red rope. I seemed to understand that he was going to do What, sweet in my heart.
Is when he raised his hand to pull his hair, I quickly pulled him.
"Don't pull, it hurts, I'll get scissors."
Although the house was from Meng Jing, he did not stay in after the decoration. All the daily necessities in the house were after I received a certificate with him. If you add it together, things are as good as me.
I quickly found the scissors and cut three of the hair in his hair.
This wrapped his three hair with my three hair, and finally tied them together with a red rope and placed in the box.
This head looked up at me, "The hair is a husband and wife,"
. His eyes have been entangled in me, waiting for my answer.
The red face and whispered back to him, "Love is not doubtful."
This holding me to his leg, "Can you?"
Is it not just that.
This with both hands on his shoulders, and nodded with blushing.
The taste of toothpaste in his mouth, fresh, a little sweet.
"You are finally mine."
It's tongue entangled me, and I heard this sentence again.
But I was no longer surprised, only to perceive his hotter kiss, and dizzy made me tightly around his neck.
did not know that I fell into the soft bedding with him, and he left my lips.
I grabbed the bedding nervously, feeling that he picked my pajamas and kissed a little bit.
The aware of it, raised his body to hold my hand to grab the quilt, his fingers were intertwined, and he leaned down and kissed me,
this time I heard him say, "I love you, ah."
I slowly opened his eyes to look at him, and he kissed me with his eyes closed like that.
The ears have always been this sentence, "I love you."
. I fluttered in the sound until I drifted to the cloud,
In my ear, "I love you."
5.
The we became a loved couple after marriage.
In the face of my favorite plants, I will always be distracted. From time to time, I have to look at my mobile phone and see if Meng Jing sent me a message.
Meng Jing sent me WeChat more frequently than before marriage. Sometimes he posted some dishes he ate at noon, and sometimes took a picture of his work scene.
The content of our chat is more and more. He will tell me some special cases he tried, and by the way, he will science and science legal knowledge. I will also tell him about my newly cultivated plants, sharing with him to grow up, and it will also fail to grow up.
Compared with the self -denial before marriage, Meng Jing after marriage became tired and crooked, especially like kiss me.
This times we went to watch a movie or in the parking lot, he would not help but kiss me in a dim environment. When the two were at home, he was a little unscrupulous. I kissed me for cooking, and we watched the TV kiss me together. When he office in the study, he would bring me water on his leg.
The at first I would be shy, but every time I kissed, when I sounded "I love you, ah." I couldn't refuse him.
I like to listen to him and call me, but only every time I hear it when I kiss, he never shouted.
This weekend, we went back to Meng Jing's parents' house for dinner, and after lunch, we were in Meng Jing's room lunch break. When I was hazy, I heard the sound of Meng Jing getting up, and opened my eyes halfway, and saw that he changed his clothes.
"Where are you going?" I murmured.
He came over and kneaded my hair, "I wake up you?"
I shook my head.
"I have something to go back to the unit and I will come back before dinner." After that he fell a kiss on my forehead, "Let's continue to sleep."
In Meng Jing went out, I couldn't sleep, I couldn't sleep. I sat on the bed and looked around his room.
It is not the first time in his room, but this is the first time to visit such a time in time.
This rooms are very simple. One wardrobe and a bed with a desk with a window. There is a bookcase high to the roof on the desk, which is full of various books.
I I was really boring, so I came to the bookcase to find this book to read it.
Byed gaze and skipped the middle two layers of legal books. I found that there was a comic book on the top layer, and I stepped on the chair and looked up.
This masters, seven Dragon Ball ... It turned out that Meng Jing's childhood was the same as most children. I seemed to see the scene where he was holding a comic book on the chair.
Sold the comics back to the original position, and then looked at the empty position of the book, and found that there was a box behind the book.
I took out the box and was a dusty gift box.
I faintly noticed that this was a secret. I hesitated for a while, but in the end, I couldn't be curious.
In the days in the future, I regret my curiosity at this moment.
Open the lid, the top is a card.
The words in the eye,
"I'm sorry, I hurt you. If you want, I will take care of you for a lifetime."
Take care of my life for a long time.
I never thought that he had given others a lifetime promise to others.
I didn't ask Meng Jing's love history, and he never mentioned it with me.
The people like him, I have thought that he would not have been in love.
is just that he is so considerate and serious when he is in love.
I put down the card and take out the things in the box,
When I looked at the flower protected by the glass cover, my hands almost broken.
The white oranges, my favorite flower.
6.
I thought he chose a white orange bellflower at the wedding is the happiness of the heart.
I thought the eternal love was his blessing to our marriage.
But earlier, he gave this flower that symbolizes eternal love to others.
did they also talk about marriage?
What stories between them?
Why didn't the flowers send it out? Why is it still?
did he want to marry me?
still want to be with the woman who also likes white oranges?
The tears dripped on the glass cover, and I suddenly felt heartache.
I love Meng Jing and fall in love with my husband, but who is the person he loves?
I have also puzzled it. We met with the blind date. He was very good to me since he met for the first time. Well, I thought he was in love with me at first sight. Now it seems that the good thing for no reason is because I reminds him of another woman?
This of my mind was chaotic, panicked the box back to the original position, lying on the bed, my tears couldn't stop falling away.
I don't know what to do. I don't have a clever head, and I don't even know how to face Meng Jing.
If I go directly to ask him, would he lie to me? He was lying to me, can I tell me again?
I don't know how long I thought about how long I thought about it, until the door was pushed away gently, and I closed my eyes subconsciously.
The mattress sinking slightly, and Meng Jing's breath enveloped me.
This he explored my forehead, and then touched my back. Seeing that I had no strangeness, wake up softly, "Ye Yan, get up."
Open your eyes.
This condensed me with concern, "Is there anything uncomfortable?"
I shook my head.
"You have been sleeping for a long time today, I came back and found that you haven't got up yet, thinking you are uncomfortable." He seemed to find something, frowned, and stroked my eyes, "How do you red eyes?"
The my hands around his neck and buried his head on his shoulders. It's not true. "
I looked at the bookcase," No, very real. "
did he ask," What did you dream of? "
Some, "I dream of others in your heart."
. His body stiffened.
. My heart was suddenly cold.
He quickly hugged me, "So it is not true, how can I have no one else in my heart."
I loosened his hand and hugged his hand.
I found that I can tell if he is lying.
7.
Since that night, I have rejected Meng Jing.
Whenever he wants to hold my hand or touch me, I will avoid it subconsciously, and I will become silent.
Meng Jing's surprise, loss, sadness now.
This he tried to unlock my heart knot, as he kneeled in front of me as he got married, and looked at me sincerely, I even saw begging in his eyes.
But I just couldn't do it with him to talk openly. I was afraid that he heard him lie to me again. I found that I would rather know nothing, and I couldn't accept him to lie to me.
I also thought about divorce, but I found that my love for Meng Jing was more aware of it. When I thought of divorcing him, I couldn't help crying. No divorce.
and he still cares so much.
I. After I refused to communicate with him, he began to please me carefully. He went to get off work every day to buy food for me to cook the dishes I love to eat. The people of the Qing Dynasty and the hydroponic plants set me a small botanical garden on the balcony. I would buy it the next day.
. He became cautious at home. He returned home and liked to rest on the sofa for a while. Every time I went to pull him to change clothes, I would nest in my arms. It's right. The housework divided by the two people rushed to finish everything. Every time he said, he would observe my expression carefully and was afraid of saying what made me unhappy.
I see it very sadly, saying that he doesn't need this to him, but he smiled and said that he wanted to be good to me.
ie we just lived together in this awkwardly. He was considerate to me. I couldn't trust him and couldn't always face him.
Until a day, Meng Jing took a bunch of flowers to pick me up from get off work.
He stood beside the car and smiled so happily, as if he finally found a way to please me.
, I stared at the white orange bellflower, but clenched my fist.
He walked in front of me and sent the flowers to me like a child who showed a full score test to parents. Before he could say anything, I said, "Can you throw the flowers?" N's smile on Meng Jing's face, paused for a while, and laughed embarrassingly: "Aren't you the most like white oranges?"
The meltering of which nerve was provoked, and I was excitedly excitedly excitedly excited. "Who tells you that I like white oranges? Have I told you? Still like someone else you remember!"
Meng Jing looked at me wrongly, flashed in his eyes, but it was only a moment, but it was just a moment, but it was just a moment. Then he smiled at me again, "I'm not good, I remember it wrong."
Then he turned to put the flower on the lid of the trash can.
looking at his back and looking at the flowers on the trash bin, I was red with my eyes.
I hate such an unreasonable self -made self and hate such a sensitive and fragile self.
On the way home, Meng Jing was also going to buy food for me.
I grabbed him, "Let's go home first, I want to talk to you."
This he quietly condensed me, like what I felt, and I didn't expect to talk about what I said.
He followed me all the way home all the way, saw me sitting on the sofa of the living room, but turned to the kitchen. I wanted to stop him, he had taken out the pot and started to wash, making a series of sounds.
I sighed and didn't speak anymore.
. After a while, Meng Jing brought two bowls of noodles. There was a large bowl of fried eggs in front of me. Several tender green leaves had no vegetable stems, and pepper oil and vinegar were added. Looking at the bowl of Meng Jing, the vegetable stems are in his bowl, and the clear noodle soup does not even have a egg.
What blocked in my heart, I ca n’t say what I want to say, but I feel that I ca n’t go on like this again.
I took a few noodles and stared at the bowl and said, "Meng Jing, I want to move to the dormitory for a while."
The air stagnant for a moment, hearing Meng Jing's slight trembling voice, "No Can you move? If you think I hinder you, I can move to the study to sleep. "
I shake my head," I don't want to lose my temper to you so no way, and I don’t want you to endure me. "
He reached out and held my hand, "Ye Ye, how can you treat me, as long as we do not separate."
I finally gathered the courage to see him, "separation may be good for us.
The injuries and begging in his eyes made me look away.
"Can you tell me what happened? What did I do wrong?" He asked.
I hesitated, and finally shook my head, "No, you didn't do it wrong, but I haven't figured it out yet, can you give me time?"
Also tolerate me like this, endure me, what's wrong with him, he just loves a woman.
I don't want to ask who the woman is and what they have.
I just think, if I separate for a while, I may be able to think clearly and digest it.
The husband in this world can only love his wife wholeheartedly, as long as he is good enough to me, does not betray and derail, and continues to take care of me, can I open one eye and close one eye. Intersection
In follow -up, please see: White Orange Place (bottom)
This: I should sleep
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Other people at home should not sleep in the wedding room. Although the two of them are not at home, this is a wedding room for others.
You can sleep, because the groom and bride's wedding room can not sleep within 100 days. Even if you do not sleep, you have to put a broom or others on the bed. This is the custom of our place. Look at the customs of various places
Under normal circumstances, others cannot enter the wedding room, so they are not auspicious for the groom and bride. Moreover, how can there be other people in the new house and the bride's happy house?